About Me — EM The Blue Alchemist

Facing Shame

Who I am and what to expect in your interactions with me.

In recent years I have been interested in becoming ever clearer about who I am as a person and as a professional, what I offer, what I do not offer, and in becoming excellent at what I offer. I have wished — sometimes excessively — to be honest about my strengths and weaknesses so that there is transparency about who I am and what represents me in action, word and thought, in every interaction.

I want to thank everyone who has helped me arrive here: my teachers, mentors, collaborators and clients. I also thank those who judged me, told me I couldn’t, rejected me, disappointed me, or whom I disappointed. You all revealed the hidden facets of my personality, carefully built to gain approval, validation and, in that way, to survive. I feel deep gratitude for every person I have met on my path.

Through the experiences I have lived so far — from the tragic to the miraculous — I have gathered knowledge, compassion and wisdom that I now choose to share. Curiosity is the North of my inner compass when it comes to psychology, spirituality, mysticism and the occult.

Despre sensul numelui

Ce înseamnă un alchimist?

Un alchimist este, istoric, o persoană care practica alchimia: o combinație veche de proto-chimie, filosofie, simbolism și căutare spirituală. În sens clasic, alchimiștii căutau transformarea materiei, de exemplu transformarea metalelor obișnuite în aur.

În sens modern și simbolic, alchimistul este omul care transformă ceva brut, greu sau confuz în ceva mai clar, valoros și integrat. Nu mai vorbim neapărat despre metale, ci despre:

transformarea suferinței în înțelegere;
transformarea fricii în claritate;
transformarea rușinii în acceptare;
transformarea unei „măști” într-o identitate mai autentică;
transformarea blocajelor interioare în porți de trecere spre un sens mai amplu și mai profund.

De ce Alchimistul Albastru?

„Alchimistul Albastru” este despre transformarea lucrurilor pe care le-am purtat ca etichete, măști sau mecanisme de protecție în claritate, sens și autenticitate. Alchimia nu înseamnă aici magie, ci proces: privim cu blândețe ce a fost greu, înțelegem ce a protejat și alegem pași mici către cine suntem cu adevărat. Albastrul simbolizează spațiul sigur, calmul și profunzimea în care această transformare poate avea loc.

What I offer

crisis support and guidance
deep transformation
transgenerational patterns
inner child
trauma processing
emotional identification
integration of rejected parts
financial education
career directions
innovative solutions
self-knowledge questions
manifestation techniques
empathy and integrity
clarity and reason
self-confidence
shadow work
compatibility in relationships
different perspectives
encouragement
expression and communication
conflict resolution
active listening
presence and focus
deep connection
compassion
healthy boundaries
unmet needs
stress management
language transformation
archetype — powers and lessons
tarot
human design
meditation techniques
empowerment and humour

What I do not offer

I do not validate the ego that wants to confirm its victim story
I do not work with people who do not want to change
I do not work with people who want to prove they know everything
I do not work with people who do not listen to other perspectives
I do not keep people in therapy for decades
I do not work according to the psychiatry-based diagnostic system
I do not promote systems created to the detriment of the majority
I do not work with people who do not want to feel
I do not work with people sent by force by family members
I do not work with children (teenagers 16+ sometimes, depending on context)
I do not do couples or family therapy
I do not work for free

Alongside my degree, training programmes, master’s studies, courses and mentorships from the past 15 years, a large part of me is self-taught — deeply devoted to knowledge and to seeking answers to humanity’s unanswerable questions. It is the part of me that loves to innovate, to open unexplored paths, to catalyse change and to hold two seemingly opposing perspectives at the same time. The only constant in my life is change — and that is what I will keep serving for as long as I live.

Professional Roots

Psychology University of Oradea
Clinical Psychology, Counselling & Therapy Master — Babes-Bolyai University
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Asociatia de Terapie Familiara, Timisoara
Internal Family Systems (IFS) Professional training — Bucharest
Personal Development Counsellor Titu Maiorescu University, Faculty of Psychology
Systemic Couple and Family Therapy Family Therapy Association, Timișoara

If you have read this far, perhaps something in your subconscious recognises something in mine. I bring my palms together, place them before half my face, and offer you a warm:
thank you for being, and I am glad you chose to play this game of the cosmic mind with me.